“As we grow older we should become not less radical but more so.”
A thoughtful dissection of these words and next an attribution to the writer.
As we grow older…
Images rise within me, as I rest on these words, beginning with my arthritic big toes that step painfully onto the curb while once they tore though beach sand following upon the heels of other children.
A fresh etch on my chin that wasn’t there when I went to bed –that one, there, next to the newly sprouting hair.
Whence once I stood, now I sit: “Would you like a seat?” The young man asks me on the streetcar. “Thank you,” I say, appreciating his kindness more than I do the seat. I try not to shout at him: Why would I? Don’t you know that I go to the gym three times a week where I deadlift, benchpress, and sweat?
Ah, there surely are endless ‘Ands’ only to be many more. Stay tuned; stay alive; they will come.
We should become not less radical…
Should. Become. We must fully become and then let go. And what do we do during that becoming? Fight like hell to climb that hill.
When I was pregnant I carried my belly during the heat of summer up to my Vancouver loft. I was 32 and my ankles swelled and my toes were fine. But it was a still a fight and now many another.
I was radical then. On the vanguard of gay parenting where I faced assumption, rejection, ridicule, and scorn. Since then, I strive to excel in radical but other preoccupations sometimes threaten best intentions.
Now I am an almost-old-woman ignored. My hands hold the back end of a shopping cart instead of a placard. Maybe someday they will hold a grandchild’s hand. Ah, but inside my heart and thought I am as radical as always.
…not less radical but more so
Margaret Laurence wrote that quote, the one that awakened a flood of words. She also inspired me to name this blog long ago when she gave voice to Hagar Shipley in the opening lines of The Stone Angel.
Laurence wrote that one small sentence but she couldn’t endure old age and killed herself instead. She tried twice, in fact, succeeding only once. Cancer struck her out. Which of her books remain unwritten? Was her final act also radical?
No answer because she can no longer speak it. We are held prisoner, wrapped in the mystery of her life, her death.
But let’s honour her words and fight on.